A three-part workshop series on planning for your funeral and legacy starts May 7 at Darien Library and runs for two more Tuesdays from 7 to 8 p.m.
— from three announcements from Darien Library
Contemplating the end of your life can evoke various emotions. Yet, finding peace in knowing your final wishes are understood can bring reassurance and comfort to you and your loved ones.
Session 1 — May 7
Honoring Your Essence: Exploring Burial Options
In our first session, we delve into the various options for your final resting place. From traditional burials to eco-friendly alternatives, we’ll guide you through the choices available, ensuring your preferences are honored.
Key discussion points:
- Burial options: embalming, natural burial, cremation (fire or water), natural organic reduction
- Setting preferences: viewing arrangements, dressing and styling choices
- Final resting place: cemetery, scattering, urn, memorial tree or plant
Join us for these workshops as we explore the profound journey of funeral and legacy planning. The aim of the series is to illuminate the path towards peace, preparation, and profound remembrance.
The next two sessions (both run from 7 to 8 p.m.):
— Tuesday, May 14: Celebrating Your Life: Planning Your Last Party and
— Tuesday, May 21: Session 3: Preparing for the Journey: End-of-Life Planning Essentials.
Session 2 — May 14
Celebrating Your Life: Planning Your Last Party
Your life is a story worth celebrating. Join us for an interactive session where we envision how you’d like to be remembered. From the location and atmosphere to the music and mementos, we’ll help you craft a celebration that truly reflects your spirit.
Key Discussion Points:
- Celebration venues: home, church, park, or other locations
- Ceremony details: officiants, music, readings, attire preferences
- Leaving a legacy: memorial options, supporting causes, creating lasting memories
Session 3 — May 21
Preparing for the Journey: End-of-Life Planning Essentials.
In our final session, we tackle the practical aspects of end-of-life planning. From pre-planning considerations to navigating complex decisions, we’ll equip you with the knowledge and tools to ensure a smooth transition and peace of mind for you and your loved ones.
Key Discussion Points:
- Pre-planning essentials: understanding death doulas, designating decision-makers
- End-of-life care options: DNRs, VSED, MAID
- Digital legacy: managing digital footprints and online accounts
If You’re Going …
All sessions run from 7 to 8 p.m. in the Conference Room at Darien Library. You can register here.
About the Presenter
Kate Bagnati is an End of Life Doula. Wife and mother of 3, she is the events and social media coordinator for the Connecticut Death Collective and JumpSTARs. Originally from Geneva, New York, she has been living in Connecticut since 2004. In her spare time she enjoys being in nature, creating art, gardening, birding, swimming, and dancing Bollywood.
Having end of life conversations, providing information and education while we are still alive is her passion. There is a great need to empower fellow humans to make their own choices so they can feel safe and supported in their end of days. Time is fleeting, she’d like to spend the rest of hers making connections, growing community, and holding space for others in great times of transition.